9 Ways to Get a Jumpstart & Make 2025 Transformational

Some of us like to make vision boards, others write a list of “New Year’s Resolutions”. Regardless of your approach, this is a great time of year to sit down and reflect, to celebrate this year’s wins and to get crystal clear on changes you may want to make in the coming year. As I was reflecting myself, I jotted down 9 ways to get started now rather than waiting until January 1st to implement changes.

1) Curate your social media

Unfollow any pages that distract you, make you feel less than, or just aren’t in alignment with the life you desire. This includes celebs, gossip pages, and people from your hometown you don’t vibe with anymore. Instead, follow self-empowerment pages, wellness accounts, special interests, and growth-focused content. Engage with what inspires you so you see more of it.

2) Reprogram your algorithms

Start searching for positive content on social platforms and Google. Look up topics like self-care practices, morning and nighttime routines, holistic health tips, meditations, mindset shifts, fasting, and anything else that supports your growth. Let the ether know you’re making a shift. Remember, algorithms reflect what you think about, search for, and engage with—so make it good stuff.

3) Block the negativity

From weird energy to plain old drama and negativity - If someone or something consistently makes you feel bad or simply doesn’t sit well with you, unfollow or block them, or set firm boundaries. Period. Boundaries are key to a better life, and this includes digital spaces. If you feel guilty, remember: it’s not about being “nice”—it’s about protecting your peace. Choose YOU.

4) Clean House

Donate or toss items that no longer bring you joy. Deep clean. Take it on one room at a time. Scrub the tub, dust hard to reach places, wipe down door frames and window seals, clean out the fridge, toss expired pantry goods, organize closets, add decor and items that make you feel good, get some houseplants. To be frugal, you can ask friends for plant cuttings to propagate, and thrift used decor items that speak to you (be sure to cleanse before adding to your space). Smudge your home counter-clockwise with sage and clockwise palo santo, light an incense, and rearrange to get stagnant energy moving.

5) Assess Your Habits

Which of your habits are no longer serving your highest good? Cut ‘em out. Decide which positive habits you’d like to implement, and start now.. no need to wait for January. Adopt supportive habits like grounding outside, exercising, journaling, meditating, eating nourishing foods, stretching, and regularly reaching out to connect with loved ones. Focus on mastering one new habit at a time. They’re the foundation for creating the life you want. They’re the structure that supports your highest good even when you “don’t feel like it.” Discipline + consistency = transformation.

6) Create a feel-good playlist

Make a go-to soundtrack filled with uplifting songs or calming frequencies to listen to daily or when you need a little pick-me-up. Skip anything low-frequency (sorry, gotta let the sad R&B songs, shoot-up-the-opps rage rap and tear-in-my-beer country music go while you’re trying to elevate). Music has power—choose sounds that really lift your spirit and put you in a good mood.

7) Write affirmations

Craft 5-10 personal affirmations like “I am worthy of love and abundance” or powerful ASKfirmations like “Why am I so healthy?” “Why am I so peaceful?” and “How do joy and success always find me?” You get the gist. Now record yourself saying them. Play this anytime you need to remember who you are. Bonus points for listening to them daily just before bed and right after you wake up while your brain is still in theta.

8) Visualize the BAG

Come up with a BAG (Big Audacious Goal) you want to secure in 2025. Visualize your life with said BAG secured. Whether it’s financial freedom, a loving partner, a new creative endeavor, a move or more free time to pursue side quests, etc., your goal should align with your core values and beliefs. Then ask: who do I need to become to make this happen? Remember, we attract what we are and what we believe in, so focus on becoming that version of you now.

9) Practice gratitude daily

Shift your focus to the good in your life. Gratitude helps you see solutions and invites more blessings your way. Stop judging others and situations negatively. No more ruminating on problems and telling all your friends and family about them. Start appreciating what is working. Staying in a state of appreciation attracts even more into your life to be grateful for. Quantum physics backs this—what you focus on expands.

Ready to dive deep, create alignment & tap into abundance? Connect with me & let’s discuss ways we can work together!

Pluto in Aquarius: The Cosmic Revolution We’ve Been Waiting For

Exciting things are happening in the cosmos right now. For some, it will look/feel like disruption, and for others - pure liberation and deep transformation. In any case, this Pluto transit is major and bringing with it positive change and growth for both the collective and individual, no matter your zodiac placement.

Pluto in Aquarius: A Cosmic Revolution for Humanity and the Zodiac

When Pluto moves, it’s like the universe handing out cosmic eviction notices to old systems, patterns, and ways of being that just don’t work anymore. Pluto’s recent move into Aquarius (November 19th) for the first time in over two centuries, marking a 20-year cycle of radical truth, transformation and innovation. Are you ready to embrace the weird, the revolutionary, and the downright liberating? Let’s unpack what this transit means for the collective, the zodiac signs, and your personal spiritual glow-up.

Pluto in Aquarius: A Quick Overview

Pluto, the planet of transformation, power, and rebirth, spends around 20 years in each zodiac sign. It’s not about surface-level changes; it’s about *deep* shifts that uproot what’s outdated to create space for our growth and ascension.

Aquarius, the forward-thinking air sign, rules innovation, rebellion, and collective progress. When Pluto and Aquarius team up, you get a potent mix of dismantling hierarchies, embracing individuality, and building communities that prioritize equality and freedom.

The last time Pluto was in Aquarius (1778–1798), the world witnessed revolutionary upheavals, the birth of democracy, and the early sparks of the Industrial Revolution. Fast forward to now, as we’re looking at another era of profound change—think of recent technological breakthroughs, social justice movements, and a reimagining of how we live, work, and connect.

What Happened the Last Time Pluto Was in Aquarius?

A few ways Pluto in Aquarius shook things up during its last visit:

- The American and French Revolutions tore down monarchies and introduced democratic ideals that shaped modern governance.

- The Industrial Revolution began to transform economies with groundbreaking inventions like the steam engine.

- The Age of Enlightenment inspired revolutionary ideas about equality, freedom, and human rights.

- Early movements to abolish slavery and promote women’s rights gained momentum, laying the groundwork for future social progress.

History doesn’t repeat itself exactly, but it definitely rhymes. As Pluto take its twenty-year place in Aquarius (2024–2044), we’re already seeing echoes of this enlightening energy—technological leaps, global movements for justice, and a collective push for sustainable, equitable solutions for society.

How Pluto in Aquarius Will Impact the Zodiac Signs

Pluto’s intense energy will hit each zodiac sign a little differently. Here’s a breakdown of how you can expect your life to shift, grow, and transform over the next two decades.

Aries (March 21 – April 19):

Theme: Leadership and Community

Pluto is pushing you to lead with purpose and bring people together. It’s not just about blazing trails anymore—it’s about building something meaningful with others.

How to Align: Collaborate on projects that light you up and focus on long-term goals. Remember, true leadership is about lifting others as you rise.

Taurus (April 20 – May 20):

Theme: Career and Legacy

Your public image and career are in for a transformation. If your current path feels out of sync with your values, Pluto will nudge you (or shove you) toward something more authentic.

How to Align: Redefine what success means to you. Align your work with your soul’s purpose, even if it means letting go of outdated structures.

Gemini (May 21 – June 20):

Theme: Expansion and Knowledge

Pluto is opening doors to new ideas, philosophies, and experiences. It’s time to step out of your bubble and explore the world, both physically and intellectually.

How to Align: Dive into learning, travel, or spiritual practices. Say yes to experiences that broaden your perspective.

Cancer (June 21 – July 22):

Theme: Emotional Depth and Intimacy

Pluto is stirring up your emotional and financial foundations. This is your chance to heal old wounds and build stronger connections with yourself and others.

How to Align: Do the inner work—shadow work, therapy, journaling. Let go of fear around vulnerability and open up to deeper intimacy.

Leo (July 23 – August 22):

Theme: Relationships and Partnerships

Your connections are getting a cosmic makeover. Pluto will help you release toxic dynamics and attract partnerships that empower you.

How to Align: Set clear boundaries and focus on relationships that uplift and inspire you. Be open to growth, even when it’s uncomfortable.

Virgo (August 23 – September 22):

Theme: Health and Daily Routines

Pluto is transforming how you approach your day-to-day life. It’s time to build habits that nurture your physical and mental well-being.

How to Align: Simplify your routines and prioritize self-care. Balance productivity with rest—your well-being comes first.

Libra (September 23 – October 22):

Theme: Creativity and Self-Expression

Pluto wants you to embrace your creative genius and let your unique voice shine. This is your time to take risks and express yourself boldly.

How to Align: Start that passion project or share your art with the world. Forget perfection—just create.

Scorpio (October 23 – November 21):

Theme: Home and Emotional Foundations

Your home life and family dynamics are undergoing a deep transformation. Pluto is helping you build a space and support system that feels safe and nurturing.

How to Align: Declutter your space, release old family wounds, and create a sanctuary that reflects your inner peace.

Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21):

Theme: Communication and Ideas

Your voice is a powerful tool for change during this transit. Pluto is pushing you to share your truth and connect with others on a deeper level.

How to Align: Speak up, whether it’s through writing, teaching, or just honest conversations. Your ideas have the power to inspire.

Capricorn (December 22 – January 19):

Theme: Abundance and Self-Worth

Pluto is shifting your relationship with money and self-value. It’s time to release scarcity mindsets and embrace abundance.

How to Align: Create a financial plan that aligns with your goals. Invest in yourself and trust that you’re worthy of success.

Aquarius (January 20 – February 18):

Theme: Personal Transformation

This is your time, Aquarius. Pluto is helping you shed old identities and step into your authentic power. The world needs your unique brilliance.

How to Align: Embrace change, even when it feels uncomfortable. Let your individuality shine—you’re a leader for the future.

Pisces (February 19 – March 20):

Theme: Spiritual Awakening

Pluto is stirring up your subconscious and spiritual life. Dreams, intuition, and healing are front and center.

How to Align: Spend time in meditation, creative solitude, or exploring spiritual practices. Trust your inner wisdom.

How to Align With Pluto in Aquarius Energy

Here are a few tips for how to ride the Pluto-in-Aquarius wave like a pro:

1. Embrace Change: Resistance is futile. Let go of what no longer serves you.

2. Innovate: Experiment with technology and ideas that push you forward.

3. Connect: Build your tribe and focus on collective growth.

4. Do the Inner Work: Heal old wounds and release limiting beliefs.

5. Think Big: This is about progress for yourself *and* the greater good.

The Future Is Yours to Create

Pluto in Aquarius is about transformation on every level—personal, societal, and spiritual. It can bring turbulence if you’re not in full-surrender mode. My best advice for now and the coming years is to embrace transformation and allow old patterns, beliefs, relationships, jobs etc. that are no longer serving your highest good to fall away naturally. Don’t cling to anything the universe is trying to remove, because even uncomfortable or downright painful, it can only be for your highest good. Trust that next two decades will bring challenges, breakthroughs, and opportunities to evolve into your highest self. So buckle up, let your freak flag fly, and get ready to change your way of existing in this reality. The future is weird, wild, and yours to create.

Nurturing the Soul In Colder Months: Grounding and Creativity

As the chill settles in and the days get shorter, there’s a kind of quiet magic in the air—a call to go inward, rest, and create. Winter might be a season for slowing down, but it’s also a sacred time to nurture our inner divine creativity. Whether you’re cozied up in a home base or on the move like myself, here are some grounding activities, crafts, and homemaking rituals that invite warmth and wonder into your world during these colder months.

Embrace a Slow Morning Ritual Just for You

In the quiet of this season, starting our mornings slow can set the tone for a grounded day. If you’re lucky enough to have a little nook by a window, take a few moments to soak in the morning light while sipping a warm tea. It doesn’t have to be a big production—you can read a few chapters in an interesting book, grab a cozy blanket, maybe light a candle, and just let yourself *be*. Adding a few drops of an essential oil like cedarwood or an herbal medicine tincture can create a grounding atmosphere. As you sip your tea, take in deep nose breaths and express gratitude for whatever comes to mind. The emphasis should be on the breath and the feeling of gratitude, no matter what its tied to. These small rituals are like planting seeds for a positive, creative day ahead.

Create a Seasonal Altar or Sacred Space

Whether you’re parked in a van or tucked away in a home, setting up a small altar or sacred space can be a beautiful way to connect with the energy of fall/winter. Gather natural elements like pinecones, acorns, dried herbs, or crystals. You can use this space for grounding meditation or even as a place to journal or pull oracle cards. Make it reflect the energy you want to invite in—peace, creativity, balance. Even if it’s just a small corner, creating a little sanctuary can be a powerful anchor in the colder months. I do this even as I’m traveling, whether in a bnb, family’s home, tent etc. and it helps tremendously in keeping me grounded in myself.

Nature Walks & Winter Foraging

Just because it’s chilly doesn’t mean nature s off limits. Bundle up and get outside for a mindful walk. Collect interesting twigs, rocks, or fallen leaves for crafts or decorating. Winter has its own textures and colors if we slow down to notice them. Bringing natural finds back with you can lead to inspiration for creative projects or become grounding items on your altar.

Wichita Mountains Wildlife Refuge

DIY Natural Candle Making

Candles are a must for winter coziness. Try your hand at making your own natural beeswax candles infused with natural scents like pine, cinnamon, or clove. You don’t need a fancy setup. Get a simple candle-making kit, and add essential oils and natural decorations like dried herbs or tiny pinecones. Not only is this a great grounding craft, but it also feels amazing to light something you’ve created with intention.

Crochet, Knitting, or Weaving

If there’s ever a time to get cozy with yarn, it’s this time of year. Crochet, knitting, sewing, and weaving are all wonderful ways to unwind, stay present, and tap into that meditative flow of creativity. Don’t worry if you’re new to it; there are tons of beginner tutorials online. Start with something simple. Fiber crafts are perfect for creating something useful and warm, and they’re travel-friendly if you’re on the road.

Creative Journaling or Art

Set up a little creative corner with some of your favorite art supplies, a journal, or a sketchbook. Let this space be free of expectation—just a place to play and let your imagination wander. You can doodle, paint, or write poetry, whatever feels right. Keeping a journal by your side allows you to process, dream, and keep track of creative ideas and divine insights.

Practice Intentional Movement

When it’s cold, we might feel like staying wrapped in blankets, but even gentle movement can help us connect with our body and ground us. Try some gentle yoga flows, intuitive stretching, or even just putting on some music and swaying to it. Slow movements help us stay connected to ourselves, and if you’re somewhere with limited space, these can be easily done in a small area.

Bake Something Simple & Nourishing

Even if you’re in an RV with a tiny oven, baking can be a meditative act. Try a simple loaf of bread, muffins, or a small batch of cookies. It’s not about making something fancy—just the act of creating and enjoying something warm can be grounding and heartwarming. If you’re in a kitchen with limited supplies, you’d be surprised at the grounding energy that even a small skillet cornbread or a few spiced apples can bring.

Seasonal Decor & Simple Homemaking Touches

Adding touches of nature to your space brings warmth and a bit of magic to even the simplest setup. Use foraged branches, dried herbs, or winter flowers. They can be placed in a vase or even tied with twine and hung over a rear view mirror. If you’re nomadic, this can bring a sense of “home” wherever you are. These seasonal touches remind us that even as we wander, we can create spaces that feel sacred and aligned with our spirit.

Soulful Sounds

Whether you consider yourself musically inclined or not, you can bring soulful sounds into your space - aligning our emotional body with the external. I travel with a guitar I can barely play (as of now anyway), but you may prefer a singing bowl or steel tongue drum, or perhaps a harmonica. Even a small wind chime hanging on the porch or a soothing drum beat can help us stay in tune with our internal rhythm. Don’t be afraid of it not being good, just play. Make the sounds intuitively and see how you feel.

Embrace Reflection & Dreaming

Winter is also a powerful time for dreaming and reflection. Use this quiet period to journal on your intentions, dreams, inspired thoughts, and creative ideas. Let your imagination run wild with what you want to create, do, or explore. It’s a season for planting the seeds of what’s to come, so honor it by dreaming big.

There’s something deeply fulfilling about intentionally creating warmth and beauty, especially during the quiet of colder months. These grounding activities are a way to honor the season, our creative spark, and the beauty in slowing down. Take what resonates, let yourself be inspired, and trust that every small act of creativity is a step toward deeper connection with yourself.

Stay cozy, stay grounded, and let’s welcome the magic of this season together.

Wishing you love, light, wisdom and safe passage through the shadow season.

Navigating Grief and Embracing Shadow Work: A Personal Journey in Healing After Losing a Sibling

Losing someone we love isn’t just painful; it’s life-altering. I’m finding myself in this heavy space right now, trying to make sense of what feels senseless. My brother’s passing has left an emptiness that echoes in every corner of my heart. The world feels different now – unfamiliar and somehow quieter, but filled with memories that play over and over, leaving me both comforted and deeply saddened. Writing about grief while the feeling is still so fresh isn’t easy, but in sharing this experience, I hope others who are feeling the weight of loss might find a little more peace and understanding.

The Depth of Grief and the Heavy Emotions That Follow

Grief is a relentless wave of emotions that sweeps over us in unexpected moments. One moment I’m almost okay, and the next, a memory surfaces, bringing with it a tidal wave of sorrow, anger, and questions that seem to have no answers. The sadness can feel all-consuming, as if it’s woven into the fabric of every thought, coloring everything with loss. I’ve struggled with guilt, too – wondering if I could have done something different or been there in some other way. But I’m learning that these feelings are part of the natural process, as painful as they are.

Though I’m a naturally deep and introspective person, the depth of this loss has forced me to look within in ways I hadn’t before. Grief exposes parts of us we didn’t know existed. It strips away our protective layers, leaving our vulnerabilities exposed. I’m learning that letting myself fully feel – the hurt, anger, confusion, and even moments of peace – is the only way through. Denying or stuffing down the emotions doesn’t make them disappear. They’re there, waiting to be honored and released.

A Call to Shadow Work: Embracing the Darkness Within

Losing my brother has brought me face-to-face with aspects of myself that I hadn’t previously confronted. This is the essence of shadow work: confronting the hidden, painful pieces within us. I thought I’d explored all of my depths, but grief brings so much more than sorrow; it stirs up dormant insecurities, regrets, and fears that we’ve buried deep. I’ve found myself reflecting on our relationship, on things I wished I had done differently, on memories we shared, and on moments I can’t get back. It’s painful, yet there’s also a strange beauty in reconnecting with these pieces of myself.

In this new layer of shadow work, I’m discovering that my brother’s passing has become a great teacher, even in this unimaginable way. His life – and his departure – are asking me to look at the ways I’ve held myself back or closed myself off. Each difficult emotion becomes a mirror, reflecting parts of me I might not have otherwise been ready to face. This process isn’t easy, but I’m beginning to see how exploring these shadows could lead to healing in places I didn’t even know needed it.

The Spiritual Perspective: Finding Meaning and Lessons in Loss

Spiritually, I’m finding some solace in the belief that every soul has a purpose and a promise to return to Source eventually, and that even in loss, there is deeper meaning. I don’t pretend to fully understand why he left when he did, but I’m choosing to believe that his journey, and the lessons it brought him (and will continue to bring those of us who loved him), is part of something greater. Losing him has reminded me of life’s preciousness, of the importance of cherishing the moments we do have, and of living in a way that’s true to ourselves and our most authentic expression. I can feel his presence in certain moments, as though he’s still guiding me, offering me glimpses of peace.

I’m also paying attention to signs – little things, like a song he loved that comes on unexpectedly, signs along roadsides as I drive, hearing his voice speak to me randomly or the sensation of him near me when I’m alone with my thoughts. Spirit speaks to us in subtle ways, and these moments have become a quiet comfort, a reminder that love doesn’t just vanish. We’re still connected, even if in a different form now.

Holistic Healing Tools for Moving Through Grief

Healing feels far off, but I’m turning to practices that offer small pieces of comfort and connection. Here are a few tools that are helping me move forward – not away from my brother, but with him still alongside me.

1. Meditation and Breathwork

Meditation creates a gentle, sacred space where I can sit with my feelings. Heart-centered meditation, especially, has helped me connect with the love I still feel for him, while breathwork allows me to release some of the tension and sadness I hold in my body. Even if it’s only a few minutes each day, this practice has become a lifeline for me, especially since his passing.

2. Journaling as a Way to Honor and Release

Writing has always been my way of processing, and now it feels more important than ever. I write letters to him, tell him what I miss, what I wish I could say, and what I hope he knows. I write about the hard days and the moments that feel lighter. This ritual is a way to stay connected to him, to keep the conversation going, and to give myself permission to express everything I’m carrying.

3. Plant Allies and Herbal Support

Herbs like lavender, mimosa and passion flower have been my allies lately, helping to soothe the edges of grief. I drink teas that ground me, that bring warmth and calm when my mind feels chaotic. I’ve also been with other sacred plant medicines ritualistically, to connect with a deeper understanding of life and myself, and to find insights that words alone can’t reach. Nature, in its own quiet wisdom, has a way of holding us in times of loss.

4. Energy Healing and Reiki

The weight of grief can feel like it’s settled deep into my bones, affecting my whole being. I’ve turned to energy healing as a way to lighten that load. As a Reiki master practitioner, I innerstand how we can use a bit of help in moving our energy in times of big shifts and grief. Reiki has helped me release some of the emotional blocks, restoring a sense of peace and even moments of clarity. These sessions also make me feel closer to my brother, as though he’s still by my side, helping me make sense of this new chapter and find my way forward.

5. Community and Support Circles

Being around others who understand the depths of this loss has been incredibly grounding. I’ve found comfort in connecting with my family, lifelong friends, and others who’ve experienced similar pain. Just knowing I’m not alone, that others carry their own stories of loss and healing, reminds me that we’re all in this together - that grief is a shared experience, woven into the fabric of life.

Moving Forward with Love and Acceptance

I don’t think I’ll ever “move on” from losing my brother, and honestly, I don’t want to. Instead, I’m learning to carry him with me in a way that honors both his memory and my own journey forward. I believe there will always be moments when the sadness feels as fresh as it did at the start, but I’m trusting that it will soften over time. Healing isn’t about erasing the pain but learning to live with it, to alchemize it, and to find meaning in the love that remains.

This journey isn’t linear; some moments, I feel strong, and other moments, the sorrow hits me with all its weight and I lose my breath. I’m learning day by day to let each moment be what it is, without trying to change it or judge it. Grief, in its own way, is a testament to the bond we shared. It’s a reminder of the depth of our connection, of how precious that bond was and always will be.

In the end, I know my brother wouldn’t want me to stay in despair. He’d want me to live fully, to carry on with joy and purpose, knowing he’s still with me in spirit. By embracing the holistic healing tools I’ve collected over recent years and allowing myself to do the deep, uncomfortable work of grieving, I hope to carry his memory as a source of strength, a reminder that love endures, even well beyond this life.

Grief is a personal journey, but it’s also one that connects us all in this life. I hope that sharing this experience, as raw as it is, brings a sort of comfort to those who may also be navigating loss. Healing may take time and come in layers, but there is hope even in the heaviest of days for a life that honors both the loved ones we’ve lost and the selves we’re becoming.

To my big little brother - Jayton Rase Hobson - “shewww buddy!” as you would say. This last week since losing you, time has stood still. I love you man. Although my spirit is aware that loss is an illusion of the flesh, my human heart aches to be with you again laughing and picking at each other. When we weren’t fighting, we were partners in crime. From meddling around our grandparents’ house as kids, taking risks climbing trees and getting lost in the woods, to reconnecting as adults and making new memories camping, hiking, hunting cool rocks and foraging for medical plants.. I’ll always cherish the memories we shared, especially those made in the months before your passing. Fly high brother, and help guide us all safely home.

Embracing the Full Moon in Aries: A Journey of Surrender and Transformation

Embracing the Full Moon in Aries: A Journey of Surrender and Transformation

As the full moon rises on October 17, the vibrant energy of Aries ignites a powerful opportunity for transformation. This lunar phase is not just about illumination; it’s about shedding the old and embracing the new, pushing us toward our highest selves. It’s a time to reflect, surrender, and harness the intense energy of this fiery moon.

Surrendering to the Moon’s Energy

The full moon is a beacon of energy, illuminating all that has been hidden in the shadows. Aries, ruled by Mars, brings a rush of vitality and courage. It encourages us to confront our fears, let go of what no longer serves us, and embrace our authentic selves.

Surrendering means recognizing the parts of ourselves that we’ve outgrown—habits, beliefs, relationships, and fears. Take a moment to sit quietly under the moonlight. Breathe deeply and reflect on the aspects of your life that feel heavy or stagnant. What do you want to release? Allow the moon’s light to shine on those areas, illuminating what needs to be let go. Write it down, say it out loud, or simply envision it dissipating into the night sky.

Burying Your Past Self

Once you’ve identified what no longer serves you, it’s time to bury your past self. This isn’t just a symbolic gesture; it’s an act of empowerment. You can create a ritual to honor this transition. Consider writing a letter to your old self, expressing gratitude for the lessons learned but stating clearly that you’re ready to move forward.

Find a safe place to bury the letter or burn it (I’m fiery and a big fan of burning, but those with a lot of earth in their chart may prefer during), releasing the energy back to the universe to transmute. As you do this, visualize your old self fading away, creating space for the new you to emerge. Aries is a sign of action, so take this opportunity to act decisively. The full moon invites you to step into your power, igniting the fire within you to pursue your passions and dreams.

Remember that the universe already knows the desires of your heart, and focus with intent on what you are releasing from your life now..for good. It may be painful or unsettling at first, but deep down you know this is the shift to which you’re being called to surrender.

Stepping into Your Highest Self

With your past behind you, focus on who you want to become. What does your highest self look like? What dreams do you want to pursue? Aries encourages us to be bold, to take risks, and to chase our desires with fervor. Embrace this energy and let it fuel your aspirations.

In Conclusion

As you embrace the transformative energy of this full moon in Aries, remember that surrender is a powerful act of love for yourself. By letting go of your past self, you’re making room for growth, healing, and the manifestation of your highest self.

Under the glow of this bright full moon, trust in the journey ahead. Embrace your courage, honor your authenticity, and step boldly into the new chapter waiting for you. Let this full moon be a turning point—a reminder that you are capable of profound transformation when you align with the rhythms of nature and your own inner power.

Embrace the magic of the moment. Surrender, transform, and rise. 🌕✨

Spiritual Meaning of Fall Equinox and How to Align with the Changing of Seasons

The Spiritual Meaning of the Fall Equinox and How to Align with the Change of Seasons

The fall equinox, often referred to as the autumnal equinox or fall solstice, is a powerful moment in the year when the earth finds balance—equal light and equal darkness as day and night stand in perfect equilibrium. This event, occurring around September 21-23 each year, is more than just an astronomical milestone. For centuries, spiritual traditions have recognized the fall equinox as a moment to pause, reflect, and transition. It marks the shift from the active, outward energy of summer into the more reflective, contemplative energy of autumn. As we honor this celestial moment, we also align with nature's rhythm and invite spiritual harmony into our lives.

Understanding the Fall Equinox: A Moment of Balance

From a cosmic perspective, the equinox is one of two points in the year when the sun is exactly above the equator, creating a balance between day and night. For those in the Northern Hemisphere, the fall equinox signals the official start of autumn, while in the Southern Hemisphere, it marks the beginning of spring.

The fall equinox is a powerful symbol of duality and balance. The equal distribution of light and dark speaks to the broader cycles of life: growth and rest, expansion and contraction, activity and stillness. Spiritually, it reminds us of the importance of balance in our own lives. As we transition from the fiery energy of summer—often filled with action, movement, and productivity—we are invited to slow down and turn inward, just as nature prepares for winter.

This moment invites us to reflect on our personal harvest—what we have cultivated, created, and achieved over the past year—and to express gratitude for the abundance in our lives. At the same time, the equinox nudges us to release what no longer serves us, just as trees release their leaves to prepare for a quieter season of rest.

Spiritual Traditions and Celebrations

Many cultures and spiritual traditions honor the fall equinox with rituals, festivals, and ceremonies, recognizing it as a time of harvest, balance, and reflection.

In Pagan and Wiccan traditions, the fall equinox is celebrated as Mabon, the second of three harvest festivals. Mabon is a time to give thanks for the bounty of the earth, to honor the changing of the seasons, and to reflect on the balance between light and dark, life and death. It’s a moment to express gratitude for the abundance of the harvest and to prepare for the introspective winter months ahead.

In ancient Greek mythology, the equinox is linked to the story of Persephone, who descends to the underworld each fall to be with Hades, signaling the beginning of the dormant, darker half of the year. Her return to the earth in the spring represents the reawakening of life and light. This myth embodies the cycle of death and rebirth that the equinox represents.

For Native American tribes, the equinox was often a time to honor the connection between people and the earth. Rituals focused on giving thanks for the harvest and acknowledging the earth’s natural cycles. The autumnal equinox was also seen as a time for personal reflection and spiritual preparation for the winter months ahead.

No matter the tradition, the equinox is consistently seen as a sacred pause—a moment to honor both the light and the dark, both what we have gained and what we must release.

The Symbolism of the Harvest

At its core, the fall equinox is about the harvest—both literally and metaphorically. It’s a time to gather the fruits of our labor, to celebrate abundance, and to reflect on what we have nurtured and brought to fruition. But it’s also a time to recognize that the cycle of life includes both gain and loss, both growth and decay. Just as farmers harvest their crops, we too are invited to reflect on our personal harvests. What have we been working toward this year? What goals, dreams, and intentions have come to fruition?

This reflection can also involve acknowledging where we may have fallen short, where our efforts didn’t yield the results we hoped for. Rather than seeing these as failures, the equinox invites us to view them as part of the natural cycle of growth. Not everything is meant to blossom in the same season. Some seeds take longer to sprout, and others may need more care before they can bear fruit.

Just as important as the harvest itself is the act of letting go. The fall equinox is a time to release what no longer serves us, whether that’s outdated beliefs, habits, or attachments. Just as the trees shed their leaves, we are encouraged to let go of anything that is weighing us down or preventing us from moving forward. This process of release creates space for new growth in the future, allowing us to enter the coming months with clarity and purpose.

How to Align with the Change of Seasons

As the fall equinox approaches, we have the opportunity to consciously align ourselves with the changing seasons and tap into the spiritual energy of this transition. Here are a few ways to cultivate this alignment:

1. Embrace Reflection and Gratitude

One of the most powerful ways to honor the fall equinox is through reflection and gratitude. Take time to reflect on your personal harvest—what you’ve accomplished, what you’ve learned, and how you’ve grown over the past months. Acknowledge both the successes and the challenges, as both are essential parts of the journey.

Consider keeping a gratitude journal during this time, writing down the things you are thankful for each day. Gratitude is a potent way to shift your mindset toward abundance, even in moments of difficulty. It helps you recognize the blessings in your life and invites more positive energy into your experience.

2. Create Space for Letting Go

Just as trees shed their leaves in preparation for winter, the fall equinox is a perfect time for releasing what no longer serves you. This might include physical clutter, emotional baggage, or limiting beliefs that are holding you back.

Consider writing down the things you wish to release on a piece of paper, then burning or burying it as a symbolic act of letting go. This ritual helps create energetic space for new opportunities, ideas, and experiences to flow into your life.

3. Spend Time in Nature

One of the simplest yet most profound ways to connect with the energy of the fall equinox is to spend time in nature. As the world around you transitions from the lushness of summer to the cooler, crisper days of autumn, you can observe the natural cycles of change firsthand.

Take a mindful walk in the woods, visit a local park, or sit quietly in your garden. Pay attention to the subtle shifts—the changing colors of the leaves, the cooler air, the quieter sounds of nature. Nature’s rhythms can remind us to slow down, tune in, and honor the cycles within ourselves.

4. Balance Your Energy

The equinox is a time of balance, so it’s important to focus on balancing your own energy during this time. This could involve practices like yoga, meditation, or breathwork—activities that help you find stillness and equilibrium.

You might also consider balancing your work and rest cycles. As the days grow shorter, it’s natural to feel the pull to slow down and conserve your energy. Honor this by giving yourself permission to rest, recharge, and restore.

5. Set Intentions for the Season Ahead

While the fall equinox is a time for reflection, it’s also an ideal moment to set intentions for the season ahead. As we transition into the quieter, more introspective months of autumn and winter, think about how you want to use this time. What do you want to focus on? What inner work do you want to do? What goals do you want to plant, like seeds, that will grow in the coming year?

Setting intentions during the fall equinox helps you align with the natural cycles of the earth, harnessing the power of the season to support your personal growth.

Embracing the Wisdom of the Fall Equinox

The fall equinox is a sacred time of balance, reflection, and transformation. It offers a chance to honor the cycles of nature and align with the deeper rhythms of life. By embracing the symbolism of the harvest, practicing gratitude, letting go, and setting intentions, we can use this time to find greater spiritual harmony and prepare ourselves for the quieter, more introspective months ahead. Just as the earth transitions into autumn, we too are invited to honor our personal cycles of growth and change, finding peace in the balance of light and dark, gain and release.

September New Moon in Virgo

As summer sunlight begins to fade and the crisp fall air ushers in harvest season, we’re grounded in Virgo’s natural discernment and desire for improvement. The fruits of our labor are brought to the forefront, inviting us to evaluate what has flourished in our life and what may need readjusting. We’re encouraged to sift through ourselves, keeping what nourishes our spirit and releasing what no longer serves or highest good. The September New Moon in Virgo is a time to let go of self-doubt, self-criticism, and imposter syndrome as we step into our divine potential.

This is the season where our focus naturally shifts to reflection and making adjustments that will support our alignment through the colder, more introspective months. Now is the time to wrap up any undone projects or spiritual assignments we may have been putting off and ask ourselves, “How can I simplify my life and reduce any subtle chaos that overwhelms my mind or disturbs my nervous system?” It’s time to slow down, listen to the voice of our inner being, and acknowledge our limits. Have you been holding healthy boundaries, or are you pouring energy into something that no longer serves you? The more clarity and balance we find internally now, the more rest and graceful surrender we align with through Winter.

Whether you’re a ritual-ly person or just like to write down your intentions, I’m encouraging you to do your thing with clarity tonight. Then, dig deep this week, showing yourself and the universe why you want what you say you want, living that reality through your thoughts and actions.

Step 1) Clear OUT any old unhelpful patterns and thought processes,

Step 2) Bring IN habits and routines aligned with our best, most authentic selves.

My advice-
Take it slower this afternoon, calm your mind, and get clear on what it is that your soul desires most in this season and out of life in general. Don’t let past negative outcomes or experiences affect your vision. Hold your most feel-good vision for your life. As the sun sets and darkness sets in, get real with yourself about any limiting sh*t you might still be carrying around that blocks you from the reality you envision. As you become aware of the blocks through introspection and meditation, let them go with love and grace.

Everything you desire most is already here, happening right now. All it takes to realize it - to see it, touch it, taste it, smell it, etc. is a quantum shift (look into quantum mechanics and quantum leaping if you are skeptical).

What this means, as corny or “new age” as it may sound, is that you must align yourself in every way with the reality you desire. Universal laws and quantum science give us the secret code. They tell us that we have to deeply know that we are the creators of our own life simulation. We must believe it’s possible and that we are worthy of our desires. We must feel deep down that we are already living the desired reality. We must release any thought, subconscious belief or negative emotion that doesn’t align with the reality we want most for ourselves. Maybe most importantly, we have to feel genuine appreciation for all that we have in the now - today..where we sit - and make space with gratitude for all the blessings and healing we know are coming into our realities in the perceived future.

“Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.”
— Carl Jung

Although we do have all the answers already, the limitations of our human avatars and the stresses of modern day life tend to get in the way of us remembering those answers often. So, if you’re ever unsure of where to start with yourself, or how to get back on the right track.. examining and realigning your habits is usually the best place to focus. What do you habitually think, eat, say, do, etc.? Tweak your habits to support the highest version of yourself. If you do, and you stay consistent, you will see magical results in the Spring/Summer.

**Link to Habit Tracker digital pdf

Corpus Christi and The Islands: Our First Trip as Part-Time Nomads

Loaded up and ready to hit the road - from Lake Hefner, OKC (our favorite hang spot at home)

Corpus Christi - Padre & Mustang Islands

If you actually know me, you know how fluid I am and how plans can change at the last minute, and actually.. most of the time the “plans” are just ideas without any concrete commitments anyway. This trip was no different. My son finished up his summer basketball league, I completed a photo shoot the day after, and with two weeks ahead without any real commitments, we launched! On the day of the first Lion’s Gate Portal (8/8), we loaded up the Jeep and headed south to do some tent camping. We just weren’t sure how far south we’d be going.

I had three different campgrounds in mind within a 30-40 mile radius in central Texas, and figured we’d snag whichever one was still available. Ya girl has ADHD though and I don’t always think about allll the necessary details. I’d forgotten how unusual it is to find a reservable campsite online so last minute, especially going into the weekend, since we’ve been camping primarily during the week over recent years. All three campgrounds I’d had in mind were booked up through the weekend! I discovered this not long into our trip, but was pretty unphased. Texas has 89 state parks…I was sure we’d find something to suit us. HA! Of the several, and I mean several campgrounds I searched, I couldn’t find any sites that were available for the days we were looking that weren’t dispersed camping with no water or restrooms (no thanks..not with kids).

So..along we went, further and further south. About three hours into the trip, with the kids asleep completely unknowing, I (or Source, rather) decided on Corpus Christi. We have relatives there and I’d been a few times before but not since I was a teenager. I knew that the beaches are pretty clean and the water is clear. Mustang Island State Park had some available campsites with electric if we decided we wanted that, or we could camp on the beach for free with admission to the park. Corpus had already been an idea of mine, but I didn’t intend to go until October when it wouldn’t be so hot. Buuut I brought my big portable battery and our portable AC, and I knew the kids would be stoked about the beach..so I thought “why not?”. This simple question governs a lot of my travel choices and I think it makes traveling with me so much more adventurous (disastrous if you ask my family), but I guess that’s all up to perception.

When we got there we drove right onto the beach. It was dark and the kids were still asleep, but they woke up pretty quickly to the sounds of crashing waves. We rolled the windows down and sat in tranquility for maybe two good minutes before realizing we had no less than twenty mosquitoes in the car. Huh uh! I’m not proud of what happened next, so I won’t go into detail, but after handling the situation we pretty quickly decided on a hotel for the night. Shoutout to Priceline and the sweet front desk clerk.. we actually ended up getting two nights for the price of one. Not in the original plan, but again…we’re fluuuid baaabyyy.

We were on the beach for the better part of three days, swimming, building sand castles, finding shells, taking fun photos and observing the aquatic life. We spent the first couple nights in the hotel then a couple nights camping on a much less mosquitoey beach at Mustang Island State Park. We ate lots of fruit and got allll the sun, swimming at sunrise and again at sunset, breaking only now and then to eat or take a drive and cool off.

The locals seem to like fishing a LOT, so I imagine if that’s your thing.. you may like to visit the area with your gear. We heard some cool stories about big catches near Flour Bluff/Laguna Madre. We didn’t get out and visit the Navy ship, visit local shops or eat at any cool restaurants, as we tend to opt for easy, close to nature, and budget-friendly when I’m the only adult along (which is usually)… but the Salty K laundromat on Padre Island def gets a five-star rating for vibes and cleanliness!

Most scenic sunrise view I've ever experienced from my tent window - Mustand Island State Park

I’m describing the adventure in pretty surface level terms, but it wouldn’t be very Rambling Hippie of me if I didn’t get at least a liiittle deep. Well that’s easy to do because aside from the obvious excitement and relaxation of the ocean waves and beach time, it was absolutely magical. I know...it’s Texas…Dirty Third Coast.. That probably doesn’t sound magical to everyone, but from start to finish this trip was exactly what my two littles and I needed after a big move and life transition.

Spirit led us to the perfect place, aligned special people with special messages for us while there, and even hooked us up with a free night at the hotel. Three times while there, GPS took us for big detours..for no apparent reason, leading us in perfect counterclockwise circles around entire neighborhoods and even a loop around the core of the city. This was grid healing work. I know grid work is part of the reason I’ve always felt called to travel, but I didn’t expect to be led in the way I was on this trip. From the route we took to get there and all of the signs along the way, to the stunning synchronicities while there, and even on the way back - our higher selves did their thang.

Sunrise swim and beach play

We stretched by the beach at sunrise, meditating to the sounds of the ocean waves and talked about how grateful we are for life and the magic of the moments we were experiencing. We swam while gazing at the golden light reflecting off of each others faces. We held tiny hermit crabs, followed sea snails until they disappeared into the sand, and I got to watch my son and daughter marvel at nature in a way I hadn’t seen in a while. Netflix and YouTube were forgotten, and the arguing between siblings went away for a while as they played and danced and splashed. Even in the heat of the day…sticky, hot, sandy…we were all content.

It felt like liberation. I’m looking forward to a lot more of that.

photo gallery

The first half of this set was taken with my DSLR, the rest are straight off the iPhone.

Just Go: Full Surrender to Adventure

In true Ladye fashion, I recently made a BIG jump. We (as in my two younger kids and I) have already been unschooling and traveling more often over the last few years as I’ve been running my creative business in a way that supports flexibility. Now, we’re kicking the adventure up a notch! As things have shifted in my career recently and nudged me to expand my online business, ideas and intentions are coming full circle. It’s time to put this Rambling Hippie show on the ROAD!

The plan in late 2019 was to launch Rambling Hippie and travel domestically in an RV/AirBnbs for a year or so while unschooling/roadschooling, then move on with other plans from there. After a major pivot during the pandemic where I changed careers, moved, gave birth to my baby girl AND a new business endeavor - our travel year dreams were postponed. I figured when my oldest son graduates HS in a couple years, we’d move out of our home, put our things in storage and hit the road for several months…deciding in that time where to buy land and settle down. *If you’re interested, there’s two old blogs about this: Unschooling Dreams and Travel in the Time of Corona

Fast forward a bit-
I’ve been doing business primarily in the Oklahoma canna**s industry for the last four years. I’m very passionate about plant medicine and the work I do to support it, and building a business in this space has been freeing and life changing in so many positive ways. However, with increasing regulatory changes and a number of other industry-wide issues, it has also become a very unstable market and many, if not most of us left have been feeling the squeeze. So while I still love working with my canna**s business clients, I’m shifting to more remote work and offering courses, guides and intuitive coaching for those ready to radically transform themselves and/or their way of doing business.

Digital Marketing Course

Working remotely

Rambling Hippie Weekly Planner

In this transition, big decisions have needed to be made. After much prayer, fasting and meditation, I accepted that the best decision for me and little family in this season was to put our household things in storage and embark on our Rambling Hippie adventures sooner than later. Although not perfectly planned or under the best cirumstances, this decision relieves a significant financial load while giving me the mental and physical wiggle room to get some big projects off the ground. We still have a landing pad in OKC and will be around each month to serve local clients, but we will be also on the road about half of the time.

Can't believe I fit the contents of my entire life in here

Locked and loaded, ready for launch

We’ve already embarked on the first leg of our journey, and will post blogs and content about our travels and adventures! (First trip recap coming soon!) If you’d like to follow along be sure you’re subscribed to e-mail updates. For more real-time content, follow Rambling Hippie on social media platforms like Instagram, Facebook and TikTok.

If you’d like to support our adventures, I’d LOVE for you to book an intuitive guidance session with me, purchase my digital products or cop some merchandise! I also humbly accept donations sent to $ramblinghippie / @ramblinghippie.

Thanks for simply being here! If you’d like to share what you like about Rambling Hippie and the kinds of content or information you enjoy most or want to see, feel free to drop a comment!

Love, light, and shadow,
Ladye

There are multiple paths to the same destination.
— Ladye, Rambling Hippie